The messy middle
Where healing isn’t linear, hope is fragile, and truth is still finding it’s voice. This is the part no one likes to talk about. Not the beginning where you’re full of fire. Not the ending, where everything is tied in a neat little bow. This is the in-between the stretch of days when growth feels like grief, when clarity flickers in and out, and you’re not sure if you’re breaking down or breaking open. Here, you’ll find real time reflections. Posts written mid-unraveling. Words from someone trying, questioning, and still somehow staying. There aare no easy answers here but there is honesty. And maybe a reminder that you’re not the only one figuring it out as you go. Welcome to the messy middle you’re allowed to be messy here.
Your Messy Middle Matters Too:
This space isn’t just mine it’s for anyone navigating the in-between. The healing that’s non-linear. The days that don’t make sense. The moments you’re still trying to name. If you carrying something and want to share it whether anonymously or openly this is your place to be heard. You can reflect here:
What are you holding right now?
What’s one thing you wish someone would say to you in this moment?
What does your version of “still trying” look like?
You’re allowed to be unpolished. You’re allowed to not have all the answers. Whatever you’re carrying you do not have to carry it alone.
You Don’t Owe Anyone a Polished Version of Yourself
Though on “look good to feel good” and showing up even if its messy.
The Impatient Caterpillar in My Head
a reflection on patience, progress, and becoming anyway.
Chaos, Actually
I’ve always been a little too much. Too loud. Too clumsy. Too awkward. Too me…
Spilling My Guts Is My Default
a love letter to the oversharer, emotional blurt-outers, and heart forward- wanderers